Melissa Gilbert speaks publicly for first time since husband Timothy Busfield was charged
Melissa Gilbert has spoken publicly for the first time since her husband, actor Timothy Busfield, was charged with child sexual abuse. The update comes after weeks of intense scrutiny around the family and has drawn a strong response from fans who have followed her career for decades.
The 61 year old actress shared her message through the Instagram account of her lifestyle brand, Modern Prairie. In the post, she thanked supporters for their kindness and compassion following Busfield’s release from custody while he awaits trial. He is facing two counts of criminal sexual contact with a minor and one count of child abuse. He has denied the allegations.
Without mentioning the charges directly, Gilbert opened up about the emotional impact the situation has had on her and those closest to her. She described the past weeks as an “extraordinarily difficult time” for their family, acknowledging how challenging it has been to navigate everything playing out in public view.
She explained that the experience has forced her to rethink how she lives day to day. Gilbert said the period has reminded her of the importance of slowing down, stepping back from constant noise and focusing on what genuinely matters. She reflected on how outside pressures, combined with unexpected events, can make life feel overwhelming and hard to manage.
Her message also included heartfelt thanks to the community that has rallied around her. She said the “love, patience, and support” shown to both her and Busfield has helped her feel more secure and grounded during a deeply unsettling time. According to Gilbert, those messages and gestures have made a real difference when things have felt uncertain.
The actress shared that she does intend to return to her work, but she plans to do so gently and without rushing. She said she will move forward “one step at a time,” making clear that her focus right now remains on her wellbeing and that of her family.
Gilbert, best known for her role in Little House on the Prairie, has continued to stand by her husband in public. Earlier this month, after Busfield chose to turn himself in to authorities in New Mexico, she submitted a letter to the judge in support of him. In that letter, she spoke strongly about his character and the role he plays in their lives.
She described Busfield as her partner both personally and professionally, referring to him as the emotional centre of their family. Gilbert praised what she portrayed as his strong moral compass, along with his kindness and compassion. Her defence of him has been unwavering, even as the legal process continues.
The couple have been married since 2013 and have often spoken about their shared projects and close bond. In recent years, Gilbert has focused much of her energy on Modern Prairie, a brand built around community, lifestyle and connection, which has developed a loyal following.
The case against Busfield is still pending and no trial date has yet been announced. As the situation unfolds, Gilbert’s message has offered a rare glimpse into how she is coping behind the scenes, balancing public attention with private pain while trying to keep her life moving forward.