Tragic Death of Megan Evans Raises Tough Questions About Online Bullying and Mental Health
A heartbreaking case has reignited debate around online bullying and its devastating impact on young lives. Fourteen-year-old Megan Evans was found dead at her Pembrokeshire home in February 2017 after allegedly being targeted by online messages urging her to “go kill herself”, reported by the Telegraph. Despite this, the coroner investigating her death concluded that other personal factors, rather than online bullying alone, influenced her tragic decision.
Coroner Paul Bennett emphasized that phrases such as “go kill yourself” were in “regular use” among young people online, often interpreted differently depending on the individual. “What may be bullying to one could be banter to another,” he said, adding that children and teenagers often have “different perceptions of bullying.”
The inquest revealed that Megan had been deeply affected by personal issues, including concerns over her father’s illness and allegations about her boyfriend’s behavior. “It is impossible to be certain what drove her to take the steps she did,” said Mr. Bennett. “I am equally satisfied that the steps she took were not related to bullying or a failure to prevent such bullying”, according to Metro.co.uk.
However, Megan’s family testified that she had been unhappy at school and felt persecuted by both students and staff at Milford Haven School. The hearing also revealed the existence of an “I hate Megan Evans” social media group and other distressing messages, including a photo of Megan being mocked for smoking and being told to “kill herself.”
On the night of her death, Megan was home with her three siblings while her parents were out. Though she left no suicide note, the coroner noted that her actions—barricading the door and choosing an infrequently used room—suggested she did not want to be interrupted or found quickly.
Megan was remembered as a talented artist, hockey player, and a young girl excited to attend a Justin Bieber concert. In the aftermath of her death, her mother, Nicola, has worked tirelessly to honor her daughter’s memory by raising awareness about mental health and the dangers of social media bullying.
Nicola founded Megan’s Starr Foundation, which provides free counseling and peer support for young people in Pembrokeshire. The foundation aims to help others navigate the challenges Megan faced and ensure no family endures the same tragedy.
Megan’s story continues to highlight the importance of understanding mental health, fostering kindness online, and addressing the complexities of bullying in the digital age.